Every day it’s a challenge for me to not get jaded by the constant flow of negative news and accounts of horrific human behavior that I learn about. For my mental health, I need to maintain a balanced outlook on the world and hold strong to a core belief that most people are basically good.
Unfortunately, in this Internet age there are so many new ways for individuals to behave badly and to hear about them. For instance, have you been hearing about a new form of cyberbullying called “revenge porn?” Have you heard any of the victim stories that are necessitating action by our lawmakers?
What’s revenge porn?
When I first heard about revenge porn, my initial response was, “Really? Oh, my God, that’s so slimy.” For those that don’t know, revenge porn is the online posting of embarrassing, racy, or nude photos and videos of an ex-lover or former spouse – without their consent and often with the victim’s name, address, phone numbers, and employment information.
Sadly, cases of revenge porn are becoming more frequent and some brave victims are coming forward, telling their stories, and asking legislators to make it a crime so law enforcement can take action against the perpetrator(s).
A few states in the US, including California, now have laws on the books that make this type of activity a punishable crime. However, proponents say the California law doesn’t go far enough because it doesn’t protect “selfies” (pictures or videos taken by same person in the images) that were originally shared with the perpetrator.
Opponents of the New Laws
On the other hand, the Americans for Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) and Electronic Frontier Foundation think this type of law goes too far. They oppose these and other potential restrictions on the grounds that such laws could be a violation of the First Amendment.
How posting unauthorized naked photographs of someone online can be considered “free speech” is beyond me…but I suppose there is a legitimate fear of “slippery slope” as any law of this kind can over-reach or be abused.
So What Can You Do to Avoid Becoming a Victim?
No matter what happens in the state or federal legislatures, no one can be fully protected online from this kind of threat because we can be our own worst enemy. “Just don’t do it” is perfect 20/20 hindsight advice that everyone hates.
It’s easy to be critical of someone who takes a nude selfie and shares without fear of the potential consequences. However, I think it would be a great disservice to “blame the victim” for doing a dumb thing that maybe didn’t seem wrong or dangerous at the time.
We’re all human and fallible. We shouldn’t have to pay for some mistakes or indiscretions forever. Perhaps the only thing we can do is consider one victim’s advice, “Think before you press send.”
Some perpetrators claim their ex’s personal pictures got into the public domain after their systems were hacked. This would not have happened if they were running Trend Micro Internet Security.
I work for Trend Micro and the opinions expressed here are my own.
